Thursday 11 June 2015

People and purpose

Do you remember that gloomy Tuesday afternoon when you had no idea that you would meet someone who would leave a deep impact in your life. Do you remember that evening when you walked into a room without having any clue that by the time you leave, your life would have undergone a humongous change?

People enter our lives with a purpose. We spend our constructive and destructive times with them. They either move, make, love, destroy or significantly change us. We let them in and then the river takes its course. What we were at the beginning of the summer, we aren't any more at fall. Either we take pride in what we become or we can't look eye to eye with our own-selves.

People exit from our lives for a purpose. Probably their roles are over, probably we need to look beyond, probably we need to discover some other aspects of ourselves now. We grumble, weep, rejoice or stay unmoved. People exit because they have to and they should. They probably entered our space to open us up like never before. They probably came to help us hear our own voice. They probably came to help us love ourselves a little more than we ever did.

With years adding up to my life, I have understood that all the people I meet and interactions that I have with them have become a part of me. I am them. The moments I focus on any of the aspects of my personality, I re-visit all  those people and events in my mind. You have grown because of them. You have transformed because of them.

Then there are a few who you wish stay a little longer cause deep down you know, you impacted each others lives, but then there would be reasons a plenty for them to exit. But in all this coming and going, always be truthful to yourself and kind to others because you don't know how much you impact the other person's life. 

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